To be successful in any field you need to believe in yourself and actually see yourself doing it and then act immediately.
Here is the question, why you succeeded in learning how to ride a bicycle for example yet failed in achieving some of your others goals?
The answer is simple: because you were sure that you were going to be able to learn ones you saw others riding. You saw everyone around you succeeding in doing it and so were convinced that there’s nothing particularly hard about it, even though it is a quite complicated skill for many.
Believe in Yourself and People Will Automatically Believe in You!
Billions of people fail to live the life they have always wished to live. They fail to realize their ambitions and give up on their big dreams as soon as they encounter the first obstacle. One of the strongest reasons for this attitude is that these people do not believe in themselves.
Believing in yourself is being sure that you are going to do whatever you put your mind to, even if others were against you. Usually, when you decide to take a big challenge or do something that they failed to do, you will find that everyone is putting you down. Under the pressure of this criticism some of us start to doubt our own abilities and eventually give up. The few that manage to believe in themselves and continue down the path they’ve chosen will be the ones that bask in the glory of success.
Learn about the psychology of convincing people:
In almost all the cases of people giving up goals half way through, the person usually starts his task being completely convinced with his ideas and is then put down by other people. Being put down is no more than being convinced that we were moving in the wrong direction.
Stop thinking that people’s opinions are important:
Some people think that unless everyone agrees with them then they are wrong. This is completely false. No one ever succeeds without having people rejecting his ideas at one point or another.
Build self-confidence in your judgment:
In the Solid Self confidence program i explained that If you challenged people once or twice and went against their opinions then succeeded, even if it’s in a small or trivial task, you will end up being more confident in your abilities and your ideas.
If you don’t believe in yourself you will end up discarding your ideas and no one will remember you. On the other hand, if you believe in yourself and continued fighting for what you want, people may reject your ideas in the beginning but will be forced to believe in you in the end after seeing you succeed.
Be strong, develop the “go get” personality and have the courage to take action that will take you to where you want to be and give you what you want to have.
Your success mentor,